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GT🥝的潇潇在自我介绍里提了个问题:小姐姐们的理想生活是什么?
GT小姐姐认真思索了好久,脑子里不断浮现了👇这部电影的好多画面。
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这部曾经在留学时代,某年大年初一,和一帮子最喜欢的朋友挤在当时朋友租的公寓里,一群妹子看得热泪盈眶的电影《阳光姐妹淘》。
当时哭成一片,是因为好害怕这样的美好日子和纯粹感情,会随着时光,通通消散...
直至现在,这首《reality》,还是会恰到好处得戳中GT小姐姐那颗本被生活打造得坚硬又粗糙的心。
值得庆幸的是:当时的这群妹子,现在基本都还在身边。虽然大家都从曾经的耳鬓厮磨成天混在一起的群居日子,脱离出来,组成了自己的小家庭,但好在只是以前的“我”,变成了现在的“我们家”。
耳鬓厮磨在一起跳舞喝酒臭美聊八卦的日子,变成了换着花样一起遛娃喝酒臭美聊八卦。
也许,这也就是GalTogether理想生活的一部分:可以和喜欢的朋友一起成长,一起养娃,一起去面对这个复杂又孤独的成人世界。
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GalTogether的理想夏天,
始于小姐姐们拖家带口的小湖屋度假,
12个家庭,带着小娃和爸妈,四天三夜!
• Deep Creek Lake
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Oakland, Maryland 华盛顿特区的后花园
Deep Creek Lake位于马里兰西南角,是马州最大的人工湖。开车距离dc约两小时,距离delaware约四小时。由于地处山区,是非常适合家庭度假的避暑胜地。
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第二小分队的山景房,远离尘嚣,世外桃源
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去爬山吧
• Swallow Falls State Park
2470 Maple Glade Rd, Oakland, MD, 21550
遛娃指数:✨ ✨ ✨ ✨
有一些小瀑布,trail很容易走,台阶有30% 左右。重点是,非常凉爽,基本不会被太阳晒到。门口还有🍦卖,推荐,好吃!
带着一岁的小娃娃,还能推着stroller去爬山?
当然可以!
什么都阻挡不了我们对大自然的热爱!推不了,至少还可以扛,队友力max💪!
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小姐姐们的正经画风是👇这样的,妥妥的森系小清新。队友负责拍+看娃,小姐姐负责笑+玩耍...
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负责拍照的小姐姐其实是这样的:
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而去爬山的小娃娃们,看到椅子就要休息的状态是这样的👇
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也不知道这个石头路是个什么鬼,一群娃娃居然就坐下来集体拗起了造型。带头的就是这位萌炸天的GT代言人:王妞妞。
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8个月的两个小妞
森林里的冰淇淋,吃起来是不是特别幸福呢?
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边走边玩边玩水,总之,大家都很happy的一个上午就是这样的。
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来,酒庄喝酒去
• Deep Creek Cellars
177 Frazee Ridge Rd, Friendsville, MD 21531
推荐指数:✨
灰常灰常小的一个家庭小酒庄,testing room只能接待6-8个人,超过5个人必须要预定。老板是一对夫妻,老板是态度mean的怪老头,老板娘是特别nice的阿姨。只有6款酒,并且不好喝!
放到小娃娃午休后,小姐姐们当然要抓紧时间high起来。换上漂亮的裙子,直奔半小时车程的小酒庄。
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没睡的娃都带出来了,小姐姐都是好妈妈
做作的小姐姐们自然少不了做作的摆拍
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亦或者假装自然的摆拍 👇
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来,为了妈妈们的自由时光,干了这一杯 🍷🍷
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室内泳池趴,开游
• Cedar Chateau
McHenry, Garrett County, Maryland
带娃指数:✨ ✨ ✨
带室内泳池的大🏠,地理位置很便利,旁边就是湖的码头,还有很多玩乐项目,如:迷你高尔夫,电玩,卡丁车。但是房子有些陈旧。
GT小姐姐们在去年圣诞节曾经在大雪天的小木屋曾喝着酒敷着面膜泡hot tub...
这次夏天,大部队的小姐姐直接住在了自带室内泳池的大豪宅。有多豪,可以自行感受👇
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外面浪一圈回来,小娃娃们回来直接:换衣服,下水!
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睡完午觉起来,继续:换衣服,下水!
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然而,小娃娃们游泳玩耍并不是泳池的存在的真正意义。最大价值在于当夜黑风高之时,这是小姐姐和队友们开启免打扰模式的party圣地!(毕竟屋里住了位“警察”,专抓吵到娃娃睡觉的人)
关于豪宅的选择,GT小姐姐做足了功课。关注GalTogether公众号并后台回复“小木屋”,可获取Deep Creek Lake的小木屋选择top 5 具体清单。
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就是包了个游艇去游了个湖
• Deep Creek Lake Boat Rentals
2030 Deep Creek Dr, McHenry, MD 21541
遛娃指数:✨ ✨ ✨ ✨ ✨
本以为会被晒死,然饿并不会,湖上异常凉爽。最多12个人一艘船,小小娃也算名额,需要自己开。一路上有许多码头可以停靠,下来吃个冰淇淋,吃个饭,或者去沙滩玩玩。差不多可以玩4-5个小时左右.唯一遗憾的是,没有带cooler,如果能再悄悄带些🍺,水果之类的,就爽呆了。
宝宝们第一次坐船,救生衣必须要好好选(人生得有仪式感),看我们的🍅炒鸡蛋
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一路吹个小风,听个歌。再跟隔壁组飙个车(船)。讲真,美妈一看船长飙快了,就忍不住叨叨:慢点。心里一路担心着:我娃没穿救生衣呢,船可不能翻咯。
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报告船长,你爹妈在秀恩爱 😠
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来,师傅,停个船,宝宝们要去吃🍦,再顺便吃个饭。
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深夜食堂 X 午夜卡丁车
• Smiley's
72 Fort Dr, McHenry, MD 21541
推荐指数:✨ ✨ ✨ ✨
就在泳池大豪宅旁边,走路一分钟,十分方便。娱乐项目有迷你高尔夫,跑跑卡丁车,还有电动和laser tag。比较适合三岁以上的小娃娃,和不带娃的放飞自我的爸妈。
说好的深夜食堂必须开起来!大厨的风范,来感受一下。
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满天✨✨,啃着鸭脖喝着酒,再来几串烤肉,聊聊人生哲学,养娃干货,再来一丢丢小姐姐和队友的爱情故事...完美!
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喝开心了,再拖着队友去开午夜卡丁车,说走就走,就是这么任性(论选好房子地理位置的重要性)。
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吃一顿做作的火锅
第一分队豪宅:Cedar Chateau
火锅这样的又好吃又方便的传统项目,自然是GT出游保留项目。
但火锅并不做作,做作的只是吃的这群。
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赶在火锅前,GT代言人们,终于合体现身了,太值得干杯庆祝!
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哥哥姐姐和妹妹们在忙着相亲相爱。在这短短的三四天里,悄悄埋下了青梅足马的小火种。
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小姐姐们在忙着吃火锅,螺蛳粉,啃玉米。
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还有一定不能忘记的做作得各种摆拍。艺术指导先来了一波专业示范 👇
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小姐姐们,来pk!
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豪宅的山坡湖景阳台是队友们的领地,烤肉,喝啤酒,聊足球...(或许还有女人)
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小姐姐们,说好做偶像剧女主角...(咳咳,要稳重)
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最后,分享龙应台在《亲爱的安德烈》里德一段话:
“人生其实就像一条宽阔的平原走进森林的路,在平原上,同伴可以结伴而行,欢乐的前推后挤,相濡以沫,一旦进入森林,草丛和荆棘挡路,各人专心走各人的路,寻找各人的方向,那推推挤挤的情感,那无忧无虑无猜忌的同侪深情,在人的一生中也只有少年拥有。离开这段纯洁而明亮的阶段,路可以愈走愈孤独。”
只愿从“大集体”走向“小家庭”的这条路上,还有一些真心彼此喜欢,互相扶持的伙伴。当我们在这条注定孤独的路上专注行走时,偶尔抬起来来,还有些许阳光的温暖。
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注:照片均来自GalTogether ,版权归GalTogether所有。
这,也就是GT小姐姐在30岁时,心里理想生活的样子了。
好了,看到这里,如果还不知道GalTogether到底是个什么的小姐姐:
GalTogether是一个最精致,独立,有趣的少女妈妈community, 针对高端婚后女性,不定期举办各种已婚小姐姐以及少女妈妈们感兴趣线上分享和线下活动。
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